Saturday, 25 April 2020

Women Psyche

Women... 
Liars? or Captive of 
their Psychological weakness

INTRODUCTION: Writing of this Article May spark a multi directional debate in the school of psychiatry. The objective of writing this article is not to undermine female gender or discriminate between males and females, I intend to discuss some very basic traits of females keeping in view their born weaknesses and strengths. My advance Apology to all feminist minded folks. I personally believe and advocate that women are not weaker than men and they should be given respect on the basis of equality. But personality traits is a scientific matter. In my writings my main focus has always been on knowing yourself. The more we know ourselves as male/female by nature, more we can reduce the gap between the two genders.

BASIC TRAITS OF WOMEN: By nature woman is loyal, sincere and trustworthy... it’s a MYTH not REALITY, let me explain why? I am using such strong words. Mostly women think, they are weaker, delicate and should be treated in an special way. This belief keeps alive a negative emotion into their subconscious. That negative emotion is FEAR... Fear is activated as a protective phenomenon in women after recognizing that they are weaker than men. Fear keep women surrounded all over their life span. Men never have a fear of being assaulted. But women are always afraid of it. Even a warm physical touch can trigger FEAR in them.

The most dominating NEGATIVE EMOTION in women is FEAR:
1) Fear of being weak (physically)
2) Fear of being manipulated
3) Fear of being raped

Fear of being physically weak triggers many multilayered protection systems into their brains. Cleverness and Hypocrisy is the most common trait found in women as compared to men. Their subconscious keeps reminding them, they are weaker and their conscious mind start creating protection system in the form of Cleverness, Hypocrisy and Selfishness. So, despite their inner instinct they start painting themselves as loyal, sincere and trustworthy person. It’s very common reactive behavior that they act exactly opposite of what they actually feel from inside. (If they are negative), for example if you find a person extraordinary courteous, it means that person is full of anger. One basic psyche of humans is “ STATE OF DENIAL”. It’s very common trait found even in people of high ranks. Failure is the ultimate result psychic state of mind. We can fully eliminate failure from our lives, if we just control our this strong habit... STATE OF DENIAL. There are two types reactive behaviors in humans, one is FEARLESS REACTIVE BEHAVIOR, a true presentation of contemporary feelings of a person and the other is FEARFUL REACTIVE BEHAVIOR, a deceptive and untrue presentation of feeling.

FEARLESS REACTIVE BEHAVIOR: Fearless Reactive behavior is a hallmark of men. And most of them are self centered and Narcissistic. Being bold and brave has nothing to do with a fearless reactive behavior. It requires special personality traits as mentioned above.

FEARFUL REACTIVE BEHAVIOR: Fearful Reactive behavior usual belong to weak persons, those persons who are not weak only but they fully believe in it. So their many Reactive behaviors can be full of fear. FEAR is a multifaceted NEGATIVE-EMOTION and leads to the presentation of many kinds of Deceptive REACTIVE BEHAVIORS which may include, LIE, HIDING and SELFISHNESS. Women are classic example of this reactive behavior.

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